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Alison J. Glapa's avatar

Such a beautiful story. As a health care professional, I could see from your photo that Robin was unwell when you finally met. Is she still with us?

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Claire Polders's avatar

Yes, she is! She still has multiple health problems, but she is taking care of herself, with the help from her doctors, as best as she can.

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Dorothy Rowena Rice's avatar

Beautiful!

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Claire Polders's avatar

Thank you!

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Janice | Travel & Photography's avatar

That's wonder to have such a great support like Robin. Sometimes writing for just one person is all that we need to keep going

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Claire Polders's avatar

Yes, indeed. It helps to write for an ideal reader. Mine happens to be real.

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Kristin Harrington's avatar

A truly beautiful and inspiring story!

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Claire Polders's avatar

Thank you, Kristin!

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Brad Yonaka's avatar

What a wonderful story. Modern communication technology is a real mixed bag from a social perspective. But your ability to reach out to someone who is fascinated by the world but cannot see it themselves is definitely a positive aspect of it.

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Claire Polders's avatar

Thank you, Brad! I agree about the mixed bag side of things. But I’m grateful that online networks can facilitate real connections between people.

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Brent Hartinger's avatar

great story

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Claire Polders's avatar

Thanks, Brent!

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Michael Jensen's avatar

What a lovely lovely story about two lovely people.

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Claire Polders's avatar

Thank you, Michael ☺️❤️☀️

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Sue Cauhape's avatar

Many of my Substack friends seem closer to me that those in my town that I see maybe once a week. This article shows how writing can become a very intimate bonding between people, where stories run deeper between people.

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Claire Polders's avatar

People who read my books and essays know me better than friends and family members who do not. It’s intimate to read someone else’s thoughts and not easy to be so clear and open in face to face conversations. Yes, we can bond through words alone.

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Doc's avatar

Thanks for sharing that wonderful story, Claire! It’s been one of the best surprises about Substack, that I’ve found so many people willing to connect, even if briefly most of the time. Your travel stories have been a joy to read and savor the photos, and I always remember it was your story about your grandmother that first grabbed my attention. I’m so glad Robin is still enjoying your travels as well!

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Claire Polders's avatar

Thank you, Doc! It's a pleasure to have you on board. I love it, too, how people spontaneously respond to one another's stories: I've met so many interesting readers and writers this way.

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Karen Hatch's avatar

Very fortunate. Nice to meet you too.

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Karen Hatch's avatar

Robin and i became friends in the 80s. When I am with her, listening to and absorbing her ideas, I feel smarter. She is one of those people who bring out the best in you.

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Claire Polders's avatar

Nice to meet you, Karen! And, yes, Robin brings out the best in people. How fortunate that you have been friends for so long.

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Sherry V. Chidwick's avatar

Oh, to have a Robin is to have a treasure in your pocket, a secret knowledge that changes everything. Cheers to your friendship, one of beautiful words and inquisitiveness. 💜

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Claire Polders's avatar

Thanks Sherry! I like that metaphor—a secret treasure in my pocket!

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Jeanine's avatar

I loved this essay the first time I read it, Claire, and it's wonderful again, second time. Also, your photo of you on bike at Angkor Watt, wow.

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Claire Polders's avatar

Thank you, Jeanine. I think I should write a piece about riding bicycles everywhere in the world, Egypt, Vietnam, Japan, etc. I feel my freedom the best on two wheels.

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Jeanine's avatar

I really think you should, Claire! It’s inventive and would be fun.

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Claire Polders's avatar

Thanks, Jeanine!

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Barbara Cole's avatar

Thank you for sharing this story with us but most of all, thank you and her for allowing the story to evolve. Oh, how we need others to encourage us, to show interest in what we have written as we pour out our life experience or simply share snippets of the day's happenings.

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Claire Polders's avatar

Yes. We need others to encourage us indeed, and Robin was a choir for me. She still travels with me in my mind to so many places, urging me to look more carefully and ask more questions.

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Diana M. Wilson's avatar

This was soooooo, sooooooo beautiful. Here's to you and Robin--thank you both for this lovely post.....

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Claire Polders's avatar

Thank you, Diana!

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Robin Flicker's avatar

Thank you, dear Claire. I am deeply touched by this.

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Claire Polders's avatar

And thank you, lieve Robin! You did more for me than I can express.

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